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Personality

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  Personality The mood swings and stress you experience as you go through your teenage can shapes your brain to determine the person you are growing to become when you grow up. Personality is defined as the characteristics sets of behaviour, cognitions and emotional patterns that evolve from biological and environmental factors. In short, it's just a combination of your qualities and characteristics you have. Think of personality as a pretty important aspect of one's life because you are going to get treated in the world according to your personality. Teenage years are the times of rapid change. We adapt new habits, we leave some habits, we start to understand how things work, etc, etc. You become a completely different person than you were after your teenage and you still continue to change with time as you face different situations. The type of the environment you grow in is gonna define you. The behaviour of people towards you is gonna change, you'll be treated different

Peer Pressure

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  Peer Pressure Peer Pressure is the direct influence on people by peers, or the effect on an individual who is encouraged and wants to follow their peers by changing their attitudes, values or behaviours to conform to those of the influence group or individual. It's like we get an urge to do whatever the people around us are doing whether it is right or wrong. If your peers are amazing people then peer pressure would be an amazing thing for you but if you are surrounded with lazy people and people with no passion to move ahead in their lives, then trust me you are with the wrong people.  The people who surround you are the ones who define you, that's why having a good friend circle is an important thing and if you are surrounded by good people that's surely going to help you with your future. It's a common saying that all living organisms adapt to their surroundings, that's what we do. We adapt the mindset and habits of the people around us and then we start to bec

Memories

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Memories Memories are lovely, aren't they?   Though we can't live forever with the people we love. Everything comes to an end and so will we. That's why we need memories to remember the ones we love. Everyone wants to make memories with the people they love, a lot of them. Memories will keep us connected with each other even after we die. Always love yourself. See, this is a very deep topic.  All of us will die, all of our loved ones will die someday. (I just started crying) Even our memories will die if we don't pass them to our future generations. Can you just imagine that we are going to lose ourselves? Once we die there's nothing left of us. Just speak these things to yourself-: 1) What am I? 2) I am I? 3) Why me is me? 4) What even me means to me and everyone else? 5) Will I lose myself when I die? 6) I won't be I anymore when I die? 7) What does it feels like to die Don't forget to tell about your opinions down in the comments.  Everyone of us have peo

How To Handle Failures

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  How To Handle Failures Everyone is scared of failures in their lives. From my opinion people fear failures more than dying.  Failures are nothing but some steps you have to climb in order to achieve success. You need to learn to accept failures and keep on working, that's what's gonna separate you from rest of the people because most of the people give up after failing once or twice. Try to find a reason for which you love the work you do and then always respect that reason. Don't question something you chose with so much dedication and passion just because you fail in it once, improve so that you can do much better the next time. Just never ever give up. It's natural to get sad when you fail but in some cases that failure gives more sadness than it should which leads to depression. Depression is much common in age groups of 16-25yrs old, about 12% people are affected by it. Depression isn't just caused due to failures, it can happen because of broken relationship

Live

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  Live "Live", you might be wondering that it's a pretty dumb topic, obviously whosoever would be reading this blog would probably be a living person. The way someone lives differs from person to person. Some live for money, some for love, some for food and many more reasons but most of the people don't have a specific reason to live and that's why they don't get passion to live everyday. Every single day in everyone's life is an important one because you are going to learn something new and are going to make new memories. My personal mindset is that everyone should have a definite and fixed aim, for what they are going to work hard and make that aim true. Most of the people just live to get a job, have a marriage and that's it. I mean like why??? Get a strong reason to live, LIVE FOR THAT REASON!!! Why not do something beneficial for the humanity. Find out a problem and solve it. You will get fame, everyone will love you, so why not??? If the problem

Drug Abuse

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Drug Abuse You guys have probably heard terms like alcoholism, drug addicts, ciggarates and many other things which surely aren't good for your health. So the question is why we even consume them even though we know that they are bad for our health. Well the reason is that either we get exposed to the people who recommend these things to us, no one is available to give us directions in our life or some people just try to adapt these habits because they think that they will look cool and will help them in relaxing. I have a question? Why harm your own health? Let's divide them into broad disadvantages-: 1) Alcohol - Inflammatory Damage - Damage to Central Nervous System - Sugar Levels - Abnormal Digestive System - many more 2) Smoking - Lung diseases - Heart Diseases - Diabetes - Stroke 3) Drugs - Seizures - Stroke - Brain Damage - Lung Diseases And many many many more. So rather than harming your own health by consuming these shit things, why not just enjoy some soft drinks, ic

Idiocy Of Discrimination

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  Idiocy Of Discrimination Today we are going to discuss a very vulnerable topic and that is discrimination on the bases of your caste, religion, race and colour. Before I start, I have a question. WHY TF WE EVEN TEACH THESE THINGS TO CHILDREN, WHY TF SCHOOLS EVEN INTRODUCE THESE TERMS TO THE CHILDREN. IT'S US WHO ARE KEEPING THESE TERMS ALIVE BY PASSING THEM TO OUR YOUNGER GENERATION. SHIT EDUCATION SYSTEM. Why don't we just yeet them out of existence??? What's even the need to teach these things when we don't want them to exist???  I know we teach them to kids so that they can understand that it’s a wrong thing to do but it’s  just because of our mistake that these terms still continue to thrive in the world. Let's get this straight, who tf are we to judge someone. Let's divide this idiotic discrimination into some major parts-: 1) On the basis of Sex 2) On the basis of Religion 3) On the basis of Caste 4) On the basis of how someone looks 5) On the basis of h

Importance Of Physical Exercising

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    Importance Of Physical Exercising Exercising daily helps people lose weight and also lowers the risk of some diseases like obesity, high blood pressure and diabetes. In our teenage exercising daily is a big +point because our body is in the growing stage and the way we mould it will be the way it becomes for our future. That's why in your teenage, exercising daily for atleast 45-60min is a must. The problem is that most of us don't exercise and just keep on filling our bellies and that's why (according to aacap.org) 17% of teenage children comes under the category of obese. I am pretty sure that might also be having some obese friends. I know that we shouldn't call anyone fat or anything due to their different physical appearance but why take a body which looks like a blob when you can have a pretty fit and masculine one. Exercise helps to keep your body at a healthy weight and also helps the body to age well. Some benefits of physical activities are- 1) Improves me

Hobbies

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  Hobbies Hobbies can be defined as a activity to do in free time for one's pleasure like painting, playing, TikToker(FFS STAY AWAY FROM ME), studying, blogging, photographer and many more. Once you get involved in some kind of hobby and start devoting yourself into it constantly, you eventually find a way to enjoy and satisfy yourself and who knows that you master that hobby to such a extent that you become a pro just like me . The main pain though is to find the perfect hobby for yourself. Everyone is different that's everyone can have their different areas of hobbies and expertise. You aren't supposed to forcefully get into the same hobby as your friend just because he looks cool because of it. Try to figure out your own area of expertise. I would say that give a try to all hobbies for a while and choose the one in which you don't get bored and you really get a chance to use your imagination and you actually develop yourself. Once you choose a hobby (which you really

How to Limit Procrastination

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  How To Limit Procrastination Procrastinating means to delay something and yeah, today's generation is the best example of delaying things. You know what else the irony is??? It's that we delay only the important work and give our 100% to the non-important ones. Procrastination is not a problem only for kids, even the grown-ups are victim to it. We all just try to confirm ourselves that "yeah it's a pretty easy work and I'll do it later." it's like either we are confident or overconfident about ourselves. Even I am fuckin procrastinating while writing this blog. According to me, I don't think we can avoid procrastination but we can just limit the amount of it. Let's first divide procrastination into some types: 1) Procrastination while studying (obviously deserves to be ranked #1) 2) Procrastination while working 3) many more else (like infinity) I won't define all of them separately because then this won't be a blog anymore, it'll bec

Teenage Fights

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  Teenage Fights In teenage remember, that you are going to get into a lot of trouble and difficult situations like peer pressure, demotivating people, fake friends, bullies, work load, less or no source of joy, etc, etc. I'll make blogs on all of them to how to deal with those situations but today we'll be discussing about teenage fights. Teenage trouble is a really vast topic, most of the elder people tell us it's nothing that much of a big deal, but the truth is that it is. Maybe with time they've forgot all that hustle, sudden change in the everyday life of us, shifting our crying location from in front of everyone to bathroom and many more changes. Getting used to something new is a pretty difficult task and that's what we have to master to be successful in this world. Ahh........ let's get back to the main topic. Alright so no matter how much you care for others, how good works you do, there will always be your haters. They will try their best to oppose yo

Friends

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Friends So, before we start with the topic. Let's just divide friends into 4 categories which are-: 1) Friends 2) Best Friends 3) Neutral Friends 4) Fake Friends (Further divides into the ones who want to harm you and the ones who don't) Alright so, no. 1 & 3 are pretty easy to make because a stranger who has just met you and doesn't know anything about you will never mean you any harm or hate. Remember there's always a reason behind everything and until now that stranger has no reason to hate you. Things start getting worked out when either you or both of you try to make a effort towards each other and that's gonna result if that person would be a no.2 for you or a no.4. Making friends is not that much of a difficult task, yeah it may seem difficult initially but once you start putting effort into it, the level of difficulty decreases significantly, then you can make new friends wherever you go. The main difficult task is to figure out if that certain person is

Teenage Relationships

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  Teenage Relationships Having a relationships is one of the most hyped up things in teenagers these days. Being in a relationship is considered one of the topmost achievement by them. Don't get the wrong idea, if you truly love someone then it's fine to be in a relationship with that person.  If someone is valuing you, never ignore them, Never. You don’t like them is a different thing but at least don’t ignore the feelings they have for you, tell them to just stay as a friend and trust if they truly cared for you, they will surely understand. That’s always stay by their side atleast as a friend :) If that person was the right one for you, then you both are going to bring the best out of each other.  The problem is that today's generation doesn't understand the meaning of true love, to shorten it down, a boy sees a beautiful girl or I should say, a hot girl because that girl is only having a good face who knows if she's really good by heart because you just started

Reasons For Getting Angry & Sad

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  Reasons For Getting Angry & Sad Anger Management and Sadness are really broad topics and depend on the situation you are into. So this blog is just going to be a type of general discussion about that. Someone can be Angry due to a reason and on the other hand someone can be Sad due to the exact same reason but just because he might be facing it in a different situation or scenario. Let's first discuss why do you even get Angry or Sad. So is it because-: 1)  Someone didn't act the way you wanted them to 2) People disagree with you most of the time 3) People don't treat you in the right way 4) Your Parents don't try to completely listen to you and understand what you have to say 5) Your Teachers demotivate you and say that you won't be able to acheive anything 6) Bullying, Treating you like a dumb kid 7) Too much study pressure 8) Too less Entertainment & Fun in your daily life 9) Not able to maintain a balance between no. 7 & no. 8 10) LITERALLY ALL OF

Being a Teenager

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  Being a Teenager Alright so! This is my first blog. So first of all hi all of you :) and this is just a beginning :D So being a teenager is a whole new level experience for all of us. There's a sudden change in our daily lives. Don't worry, we will still be treated as kids but will be expected to think and act like mature grown ups. So yeah, IT'S NOT AN EASY THING. It's an age when we start acting according to our own will and that's why we also make some wrong decisions because it's THE FIRST TIME FOR US! (There was a survey which I conducted, so whatever graph or information you are gonna see, will be from that survey) The Field where we are going to make most of the mistakes are-: 1)   Emotional      2) Decision Making      3) Study Related      4) Dealing with Parents      5) Dealing with Friends     6) Procrastinating     7) Spending too much time on Phone      8) Wrong use of Social Media     9) Other So yeah, even we realise that we do mistakes (even if