Choices

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 Choices

Alright so, let's get things straight. Life is full of choices and the outcome of our life depends on the choices we make during it. Like seriously, look around you, you'll find so many things to do which you can't do together, you gotta choose the order in which you'll be doing them. Some choices are easy to make but on the other hand some choices are toughest of the toughest to make.

For example, imagine that you're buying a phone, there are literally so many out there, which one are you going to choose? Obviously you're going to choose the one which has the best specifications according to your budget. Which brings us to the fact that what are the criterias we look for while making choices? Obviously those criterias depend on the situation for which we are making decisions. But in general we're going to look out for as much ease as we can get and also we would like to have the best outcome.

Obviously these criterias don't go well together, wanting to do the least work but still wanting the best. You gotta make sacrifices to achieve something great because achieving success isn't easy. Even the people who want to go to heaven don't wanna die in order to do so. What I mean is that, there are some certain compulsory steps which you must do to achieve a certain thing. You just can't skip them. That's what the problem is, people just want the outcome, they don't want to follow the procedure that leads to that outcome.

The aim of today's generation is to make things as simple as possible and easy. We are a generation of minimalists. We want the best available in the most easy and cheapest way, if you manage to do so for a large number of people or a community, then success is eagerly is waiting for you. 

Well here are some basic tips to help you while making decisions or choices-:

1) Just be calm and don't let stress get the better of you

2) Weight the pros and cons of making that certain choice and be simple

3) Consider all the possibilities

4) Think of the end result

5) Once you make a decision and you believe yourself, stick to it and don't allow your surroundings to influence you to change that decision

6) Its never too late to make good decisions

Once you've made the decision don't regret it. If you can improve on it, it's amazing but still you can't change the fact that you took that certain choice. The way me make choices depends on our experiences, more the experience we have, more the good choices we'll make. And experience comes with time, in short the more choices we are allowed to make, the more we'll learn. 

See everyone loves success and on the other hand everyone hates failure, well obviously who even would like to fail but still it is a important step. Failure teaches us the importance and value of success, failure is also the one who teaches us the importance of failure. Failure will give you more lessons than a success will ever give. It's just that you gotta respect failure too because if you took that failure positively then it has already given you the will power and strength you need to achieve success.

On top of that, I'll request you all to give read to this blog too, trust me, it'll be worth it- Influence Of Our Surroundings.

Your life is your life. It belongs to you. Do whatever you wanna do with it and that too in whatever way you want. It all lies in your hands. Do whatever you love because life is too short to be living according to someone else's expectations and for someone else's satisfaction. Just believe in yourself and be true to yourself that yeah, you are doing something good and not something wrong. Learn to find joy in whatever you're doing.

In the end, there's too much to do and learn in this world and our life might be a bit short to do so. It's ok to give breaks to yourself. Spend time with yourself, your loved ones, try to understand people around you. Make many beautiful memories with your loved ones. Care for everyone, have a lot of friends. Enjoy this life as much as you can. Keep on searching for balance between work and enjoyment and choose the one which works the best for you. Keep on developing. Try to live as much of a regretless life as you can. Be as much productive as you can and try to make the most out of your time. Love your life guys, it's the most valuable asset you are ever going to own.

Alright then guys that's it for today, I hope you enjoyed my blog. See you guys in the next blog and See ya for now :)


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