Influence Of Our Surroundings

 Influence Of Our Surroundings

Alright so, currently we live in a time where we lack trust on ourselves and doubt ourselves too much. If said in easy language, it's just that we can't adhere to what we say and why's that? That's because we let our surroundings influence us too much, they leave too much of a strong impression on our mindset. We try to become what we see in our surroundings. 

For example, crypto currencies and NFTs are in too much hype these days. Just because they are being hyped, everyone else too wants to invest in them without even doing proper research and to be honest that's just going to lead you into losing your money. The people who are hyping it know what they are doing, they are creating profits for themselves. That's why research about stuff you are getting yourself involved into, don't just jump off because everyone else is too. I won't deny that these stuff can be the future because no one can predict the future but just be careful with them.

Another example to this are so called social media influencers, I won't say that all of them are wrong but most of them are worst of the worst and I can't understand that why would people treat their disrespects as their own disrespect. Like yeah, it's obvious to respect something you follow but atleast look at what you're following. If you're following trash then why would you even expect yourself to become fragrant? Please choose your role-models carefully because that's something you look forward to achieve in your life in the future. 

I would like to say in that don't let your decision-making be affected by your surrounding unless you actually think that it makes sense. Follow your mind, not others, even if you fail it will be an important lesson for you. Make mistakes, fall, stand up and next time fail lesser and keep on improving consistently. Life is too short to be living for someone else's expectations and satisfaction.

Never ever follow the crowd blindly. Don't do certain stuff just because everyone else too is doing it. Be yourself. Everyone is different in this world, that's why if something works for others, it isn't guaranteed to work for you too. Obviously you can't say this for sure until and unless you try but what I meant to say is that follow yourself, do stuff you want to do and not what others want you to do.

Have you guys ever thought that why the people who are successful are successful? They also let the surroundings influence them and do what others wanted them to do? I don't think so. They became successful because their ideas were new and their mindset was different from other people. Yeah, it's actually a great thing to adapt someone else's good habits but don't you think that you are going a bit too far by actually trying to adapt their whole mindset? At this point you're just copying them.

So many people are following that same person, imagine if all of them adapt that same mindset, what's the difference between y'all? All those people should become successful now? I don't think so. You are supposed to have something great of your own to be able to separate yourself from that same mindset group. Mindset is what separates the best from the rest. That's why get something of your own. Don't just become a puppet and expect to achieve everything by copying someone. A well-developed skill can make us expert in a certain field but to be even ranked above those experts you are supposed to have your own different kind of kick to that certain skill of yours. This is just my personal opinion which I wanted to share with you guys.  

Gaining experience and developing ourselves on our own is better than just copying someone else, even if it takes time. Comparing and contrasting ideas with each other in a discussion is also a way of gaining knowledge. For example, like debates. You get to understand what others think about the same thing according to their own reasons, it's your choice to agree with it or disagree. Trust me it's helpful.

In the end, there's too much to do and learn in this world and our life might be a bit short to do so. It's ok to give breaks to yourself. Spend time with yourself, your loved ones, try to understand people around you. Make many beautiful memories with your loved ones. Care for everyone, have a lot of friends. Enjoy this life as much as you can. Keep on searching for balance between work and enjoyment and choose the one which works the best for you. Keep on developing. Try to live as much of a regretless life as you can. Be as much productive as you can and try to make the most out of your time. Love your life guys, it's the most valuable asset you are ever going to own.

Alright then guys that's it for today, I hope you enjoyed my blog. See you guys in the next blog and See ya for now :)