Teenage

 Teenage

Alright so, let's get this clear that yeah, teenage is a tough phase. Teenage starts at thirteen and ends up at nineteen. In this phase of your life you go through various physical as well as mental changes. To be more precise your thought process, problem solving and all that stuff develops at a much faster pace than usual during this time period.

It's like that this phase of life is a boss level, the better you play it, the better things become for the future. You meet many people during this phase and some of them become your friends too. Whatever happens with you, somewhere or the other teaches you a lesson about life. You finally start to understand the actual meaning of the word "worth". One thing I would like to say is that the person who knows the worth of life, is a pro.

The way you treat people, your mindset, your priorities and stuff like that starts to get influenced by your surroundings. In some cases parents start to become overprotective or sometimes you are granted 100% freedom, both of these cases are wrong. Parent are supposed to create an environment for the kid in which they can enjoy as much as they want but also don't make mistakes which are impossible to overcome. 

Best way to learn and understand things is to do them in your own way and to be honest it's best to let children make mistakes and then allow them to learn the lesson in their own way because that's the most efficient way to do so. Let them do things they want to do, don't stop them unless they are going to do something too wrong.

 Most of the parents think that studying is the only thing that will make you successful in your life. Well to correct the statement, it's not studying, it's your knowledge that will make you successful in your life. I can sit in front of some book for hours to pretend studying but not gaining any knowledge from it. Everyone has their own different ways to gain knowledge about things because as I always say, everyone is different in this world. You can't just go ahead and start comparing someone to someone. 

If a child comes to their parents to discuss anything. Never ever oppose them, I mean it, never ever directly oppose them. Give them facts about it but please don't oppose their ideas. You are doing nothing but just making the child less open to you. Next time they'll just prefer to take advice from someone other than you who can you know, just misguide them. It's true that parents always want the best for their children but they should also care about the path they use to do so. Treat them the way you would've wanted yourself to be treated in your childhood. 

Parents too were kids at some point. It's sad how fast time passes. That's why they should offer the assistance to their kids where they think their own parents lacked or could have improved. The environment we grow in and our surroundings affect our mind a lot and leaves a pretty huge impression on our minds that's why be careful about where you spend your time. Just keep on improving bit by bit every day passing. That will bring you one step closer to success.

Children today have different areas of interest in which careers can be definately made. So if they really want to do that certain thing and are serious about it then don't stop them, rather support them. Every second is a new moment and every second passed is the past. I just want to say that this time won't come back and in the future a lot of different things are already awaiting us. So make full use of the present. There's more to the world than just marks and education. Don't doubt yourself, just do it, if you're supposed to fail you'll fail and if you're supposed to succeed you'll succeed. It's better to try than let go. Just keep things balanced and believe yourself.

Not to mention, new and innovative things are more than welcomed in today’s time because everyone wants to be different and at the same time people want their lives to become as simple as possible. So yeah in short, new and innovative ideas that benefit a large community are more than welcomed in today’s time.

Some other things which you should take care of in your teenage are-:

1) Stay fit

2) Gain Knowledge about various things

3) Don't care too much about what others say as long as you believe yourself

4) Make real friends. (It'll be tough but it will surely pay off in the future)

5) Try to find your areas of interest and work on improving yourself in those areas

6) Have a schedule to follow everyday

7) Be positive

8) Keep your imagination alive

9) Stay who you are, don't let others the influence the way you live

10) Wear whatever you are comfortable in 

11) Be honest and caring

12) Learn new skills

Time is something which is going to end for every single one of us. All of us are going to run out of time at some point in our life. Yes, it's pretty sad but it's the truth. All of us are going to leave this world someday. It really makes me cry that someday we will just vanish from this world and we won't even know that we are dead, we won't know what happened to our loved ones after that, how the world progresses, etc. That's why try to live a happy and regretless life which you've dreamed of. Fulfill your dreams, make lots of memories with your loved ones and enjoy a lot. Just try to understand the true value of life yourself and you'll be good to go.

Alright then guys that's it for today, I hope you enjoyed my blog. See you guys in the next blog and See ya for now :)


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