How To Win Friends and Influence People

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 How To Win Friends And Influence People

Alright so, winning friends and influencing people is a difficult task. Either you're born with it or you'll have to work hard to learn it. But in the end it isn't a talent, it's a skill.

I myself faced a very harsh and painful time due it............ just because I was too shy to talk. So now I work on it.

Here are the tips to win friends and influence people:-

1) Smile and be happy

2) Always stay friendly

3) Allow others to say first

4) Value everyone

5) Don't crtitize, condemn or complain until it's too much

6) To get the best out of it, avoid arguments

7) Show respect for other people's opinion

8) Ask questions rather than giving orders

9) Always try to begin with some kind praise and appreciation or something interesting

10) Try to take genuine interest in the other person 

11) When you're wrong, accept it

12) Talk in terms of the other person's name

13) Be a good listener, let the others do the talking

14) Sometimes go out of your way to make people comfortable

15) Publicly praise the other person's accomplishment

16) Try to see things from the other person's point of view 

17) Be yourself

18) Value their emotions and thinking

19) Don't be afraid to keep your point of views in front of them 

20) Treat everyone equally and positively

Just have faith on yourself and go for it !

Alright then guys that's it for today, I hope you enjoyed my blog. See you guys in the next blog and See ya for now :)


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